Messy situation

I met a guy a couple of years ago and foolishly fell in love with him. At the time he told me he had never been married or engaged. We had a casual relationship over the past two years. He has acted like a rotten prick on a couple of occasions but I for

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Published November 16, 2006.Messy situation

I met a guy a couple of years ago and foolishly fell in love with him. At the time he told me he had never been married or engaged. We had a casual relationship over the past two years. He has acted like a rotten prick on a couple of occasions but I forgave him and we have been back "together" for the past year. He has never made any commitment or promises to me. Our relationship has been mainly about having casual sex and talking two or three times a week. Several months ago I found out he is married. I was almost sick to my stomach and considered going to his wife to tell her what a bastard her husband is. I also thought about confronting him but decided to just play it cool. He married her last year, after I had met him two years ago. He was already engaged to her when I met him two years ago. Lately he has started lying again and acting like a prick. I sound like a loser but a part of me loves him very much. I am torn because I am deeply resentful of the way he treated me last year when we had a horrible fight (verbal not physical).Sometimes I feel that I have completely forgiven him after the fight we had last year, but my resentment returns when he ignores me. Now that he is acting like a jerk again with me, I am planning to end this thing once and for all by going to his wife and telling her about the way he has cheated on her the past two years. If I chose to go to his wife there will be no possibility of picking up where we left off because that will terminate the relationship once and for all. Am I a bitch to want to tell his wife about the love triangle I unknowingly entered when he told me he was single? Because he is a prick does that give me the right to act like a bitch? Or should I just walk away and not cause grief for his wife who now has a baby?

Burned again

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