I head out on Tuesday night to Stayner's to see the talented Ross Neilson play, as listed in The Coast's daily music listings. No Ross. No music period. Not the first time I've been disapointed with the Coast's live music listings. Conflicts between the "daily" and "by venue" listings are common. I like reading the Coast and like the coverage it gives to live music acts, but I miss the Daily News who despite several other shortcomings, managed to do a very accurate job of keeping track of who was playing where and when. You folks can do better.