I'm getting tired of my friend using my computer for his gay/and trans-porn...and asking me and my boyfriend what gay friendly spots to hit in your trip to montreal (where you say to your girlfriend its a business trip) You are always bugging us to come out to the local gay clubs with us....this isn't what bothers me. You won't come out and want to lie to yourself that's fine, but don't lie to your girlfriend who loves you to know end. You know she's going to think somethings wrong because you don't have sex with her and you are obviously so flaming its unreal. How doesn't she know? Do yourself and her a favor and come out and break it off with her. Not only do you lie to yourself you lie to everyone, especially this girl who is falling in love with you. She's going to find out from someone else's lips and it's going to really hurt her more than you telling her. I'm getting so tired of your Drama!

A very tired but at least self respecting gay man!