I know, I know... I am gay too. We have somthing in "common". This doesn't mean I am your "bff". You are a skinny little twig of a man with a lispy voice and an attitude that needs some serious adjustment.
Asking me if I think someone is "hot", telling me about your "crazy like omg too drunk of purple Rev and coolers party weekends", and having somethign to say about how everyone dresses is not appropriate.
Furthermore, just because you're gay doesn't mean that everything that comes out of your mouth has to revolve around that aspect of your life. I am gay and I talk about lots of varied subjects - cars, the economy, weather, professional development, sports, clothes, and so on. Rarely does the subject of my conversations turn to my sexuality as being an influence on every aspect of my life -maybe you ought to take somethign away from this.
Finally, you are over 30 - I am in my 20's. Even I am over the whole "party hearty and talk about it like it's going out of style" phase of my life. We are professionals - act like it.---S.McQueen