WTF is wrong with ex wives? I am a second wife, I personally did not know my own father but that's another story. The kids will never call unless they need something. Has your Dad every missed a birthday, Christmas, child support payment? NO! He is not perfect,but neither is your mother! He divorced her not you kids! His door has always been open to all of you, not like you ever come through it! You are no longer kids and have to make your own choices, and maybe you will be divorced parents yourself hope the exes don't poison your kids! It will be too late some day, you should know he loves you all:)---Just Sayin!