To the men in my life and the future men; there is a difference between casual sex and wanting a relationship—the difference is you growing a pair and telling me what you want—I'm not talking about "feelings" I'm saying make yourself clear and stop dragging me into your confusion. What is it about nice guys who are damaged by their exes or just too busy partying with their boys to man up and take responsibility for their actions. If you don't want a relationship just say so—you don't have to be a dick about it. —Live and Learn