Waste of money

I'm a 33-year-old guy with a cool decent job, good looking, knows how to treat women, etc. Not finding the right girl in real life, I gave online dating a try. At first, I used the free ones and had no luck at all. Then I'm told by a few of my buddies and acquaintances, who have done the online thing, that if I really want to find a quality woman I should pay up on one of the more legit sites, and stay away from the free catch n release ones. I want a relationship, not just pussy, so I'm all for it.

I'm now into month 5, $60 plus later, and haven't even been on a date. I might sound like I have a huge chip on my shoulder, but who the fuck do these women think they are? I'm not messaging every girl I see, but I've written dozens of them and maybe got 5-6 responses. I get notified when they read my message, and realized a lot of them were checking their inboxes and just dismissing me! These are girls I have over 80% compatibility with, according to the site. We're compatible, I know I'm not an ugly dude, I don't write creepy or sleazy things, so what else do they want? What am I paying for? Where are the women who aren't so stuck up? These women are picky as fuck and I'm starting to think they'll be single for a long time. Why is that so much to ask--to find a nice girl in this city and not still be a bachelor by 40 or 50? —Single dude looking for a cool chick

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