Dating Site Hell

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Who says men have an easier time finding a good woman on a dating site than the other way around? From personal experience, I can tell you that is a crock of shit. Let me start off by saying a good personality is vital to me, but looks play just as important of a role. I'm an athletic, successful guy who's attracted to a certain type. When filling out my profile, I came across the physical pref section and put exactly the type I go for.

Some girls clearly didn't adequately read my profile because I seem to be getting a tad too many emails from heavy women. I sound shallow but I can't help what I'm attracted to and I'd like a girl who is a match for me. I have a lot going for me and I think I can afford to be a little picky.

What frustrates me is that when I don't respond, some of them message me again. If I didn't write back before, what makes you think I'll write back now. One lovely woman went the extra length and asked me why I'm not interested, after messaging me twice before. I figured I could at least give her a reason and politely told her that physical attraction was important to me and that I was sure many other men out there would go for her. What did I get? "Go fuck yourself, you superficial piece of shit!"

Other women I won't respond to are ones who say "hey what's up!" or "hey sexy" or something random, and nothing else.

And what is with these women anyway? They seem to be desperate and clueless. Out of 10 that I don't write back to, 4-5 will write again. One even said "Don't by shy"! Fuck sakes, I'm not shy, I'm just not interested.

Also, believe it or not, this is on one of the sites you PAY for. The website gives me about 10 matches daily. I've been using it for 2 months now, and hate to say it but, out of all my "matches", only about 5% were women I considered. I have honestly blocked more than messaged.

Where the hell are the attractive sane women?! —Looking for Quality Ladies

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