A year later, do I feel emotionally different?

Some days I'd say yes, other no. Today the latter is true.

So sure, I've gone out and met new people, made new friends, got a new girl friend. But something about it all feels hollow, like I'm missing a part of me. Eventually, my mind comes back to you.

However, you couldn't give two shits about me anymore. All the talk of "Lets stay friends" never panned out, and to an extent I feel lost without you. It was hard for me to move on because you were in my life for half the time I've been in Canada. Spent so much of my life moving around that I had never made strong emotional connections before then.

However, you seem happy with your life now.

I guess thats enough.

---Alone

This rant is for all the girls out there who have been led on by a guy downtown.

I was out on Saturday night, and I met a guy who seemed interested in me. He even stayed to talk to me while his friends left the bar. We were at the bar til they closed, to the point where we were actually being told to walk to the door and leave the bar. Before we left, he asked if he could get my number, and then gave me his, and told me to text him.

4 year relationship ended because you can't stand up to your parents.
Father.. alcoholic.. drug addict, mental problems
mom.. too dumb to spell
uncles.. mental problems.
cousins.. as fucked up as you are because of the above.
you're broke, trying to hook up with loser friends to feel better about yourself, and on a career track that goes nowhere..
the good news is.. mommy and daddy still love you

---DCW

Not only were you my Fiance, you were my best friend. You moved home to be with me and plan our wedding and then one day as I made us dinner I realized you were late, I realized you weren't coming.You ignored my calls and I never heard from you again. Your clothes have been given to big brothers and sisters everything else I sold, except the ring...its sitting at the bottom of the harbour. You have the spine of a jelly fish.

Good Luck I hope you turn out like your brother.

---Miss HFX

It's not just that you had an affair. You betrayed me on so many levels.

As much as I do hate you down to your core- our son adores you- try picking up the phone when we call NIGHTLY so he can tell you he loves you- I know you've moved on and I'm supposed to be "broken hearted" but I'm not- I'm simply trying to be a damn good mother- and you prove time and time again that all you care about is you. Thanks for letting down our little boy time and time again, why can't you just leave and stop pretending you actually care about our little boy? You haven't paid me a cent since I left you- and you were heart broken for all of a week before your new Barbie showed up. You say your an active role in our son's life- but you are a dead beat- hope next time you reproduce you actually play an active and healthy role in your child's life.

---being mommy and daddy

You think I should be friends with some of them? They don't care about me and, I see, neither do you. Please don't come to Halifax again. You have much more of the world at your fingertips than I do and hearing that you proposed to her here? You have thrown me out like trash and I wish I could forget you.

---sup

I am a 20's self made type female, who had recently started seeing someone in a different field of work but with about the same career prospects. We are both goal-oriented and accomplished in our own way. Here's the thing. He has something going on in his life right now that's making him temporarily very broke. So I opened up a bit more than I usually would, so early on anyway, about my past/ life growing up (picture the kid that had 3 shirts for the school year and was about 30 pounds underweight). I was sort of saying a, do what you have to... you can live off 35 bucks a week (after bills) no problem...it's not so bad kind of thing. I don't know.

We talked online 4 nights a week for almost a month. We had so much in common. Then we started talking on the phone. We would talk for about an hour. I totally clicked with you, and I thought I was falling in love. But I realized who you really were when we exchanged pictures for the first time. I thought you were cute, so it made things even better. BUT YOU SAW MY PICTURE AND TOLD ME I WASN'T YOUR TYPE! AND I NEVER HEARD FROM YOU AGAIN! It didn't fucking matter that we had a lot in common and that we were falling for one another, just cause I wasn't YOUR idea of attractive, you ended it and chose not to meet me in person!(I'm not even ugly/unnattractive for fuck's sake!). You just fucking wait, if Karma exists the 10 you fall for will break your heart just like you broke mine! Here's hopin you get rejected!

---It's your loss, asshole!

Thanks to all for their comments and advice. I posted my Bitch so that said ex would shit her drawers thinking that there might actually be some ramifications for her actions. My husband did send her on her way, telling her he was happily married ( a follow up email from her gave me this) but I'm pissed that she is still trying to keep in touch with him through chatty emails for which he replies with one liners and statements like "good luck" so you would think she would get the hint. He has admitted that he loves the fact that after totally sucking him dry financially and emotionally, it DOES feel good to tell her how great things turned out for him. I have no worries of him cheating with her or anyone, for that matter. What I was pissed about was the fact that this person is supposed to be getting married soon and here they are tapping on my door, seeing if there is any chance of reconcilation with their now married ex-boyfriend. And its been years, too! I mean, if he had contacted her before we were to be married, I can guarantee you the wedding wouldn't have taken place so even tbough my husband has put the run on her, shouldn't she sweat it out a bit, wondering if that post if about her? Wouldn't it be cool to send him (fiancee) her emails the morning of? So, SHE'S the cheat. My husband is only guilty of wanting to let her know he won the lottery before he said bye, bye. Would everyone on here want to know that their fiancee was trying to get back with their ex, even though the attempt failed? Up until early July, this chick thought she didn't have anything to lose by just trying...and I just wanted to let her know she does.

That's right bitch, one more email, even one of those cutsey forwarded ones that you send to everyone in your contacts list, is going to land you in the dog house with your fiancee cause if he knew the things you said, he would freak. Your just a pathetic joke to us but your fiancee won't be laughing.

---The Last One Standing