This is a second hand "love" passed on to me by my friend. She was preparing for a visit to a friend in palliative care and headed to our local bakery so she could take along something tempting. Unable to decide, she explained the situation and asked for recommendations. Other customers in the bakery offered their suggestions (eclairs, tiramisu) and their compassion. AND THEN THEY PAID FOR IT ALL. —Get the carrot cake!