Thanks giving

Saturday, December 14, 2019

To the concerned motorist

Posted By on Sat, Dec 14, 2019 at 10:59 AM

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I was walking to the bus stop a couple of weeks ago. As I was crossing a sidewalk with a walk sign on Oxford Street, some absolute moron whose windows were fogged-up blew through the oncoming traffic, narrowly avoided hitting a school bus and almost ran me down. I was furious, because in the last few days prior to this I've had way too many close calls with distracted drivers in the Quinpool area. After trying to chase down the guy, I walked back up the road to where my bus stop was, and discovered you had been pulled over waiting to ask if I was alright. It was a very kind gesture, so I wanted to say thank you very much, and I hope you never end up in an accident because of the fault of someone who shouldn't have a driver's license.
—Just Trying To Get To School In One Piece
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Thursday, December 5, 2019

Thank you for not driving

Posted By on Thu, Dec 5, 2019 at 4:17 PM

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Let’s think about all of the common reasons why drivers get frustrated with pedestrians—they’re slow, they’re erratic and unpredictable, they’re distracted or inattentive, they don’t obey traffic signals, they don’t wear visible clothing and so on. (There are good pedestrians too, but we don’t complain about them.) Now let’s imagine those people driving the way they walk. A slow, erratic, inattentive driver who doesn’t follow the rules of the road, is WAY worse for everyone who uses the roads; drivers, pedestrians and cyclists alike.

You never know why someone has chosen to be a pedestrian. For many people it’s for financial or sustainability reasons. It could also be that they have an intellectual disability making it difficult to understand the rules of the road; they might be responsibly staggering home while drunk; they might be on a medication that affects their response time; they might be rushing inattentively to get out of bad weather or home to a sick dog; they might be a teenager whose brain hasn’t fully developed the protective awareness measures that adult brains (typically) have; or they might be a terrible driver whose license has been suspended.

As drivers, we are assumed to have adequate reaction times, have committed to minimizing distractions in our cars, to follow road rules,and to look for erratic pedestrians (or cats, or stray children). We have the onus of government-issued responsibility, a pedestrian doesn’t have the same—and might not even be capable of assuming this responsibility. So to all the pedestrians out there who aren’t walking because it’s cheaper or more environmental—THANK YOU! You keep walking, and I’ll pay attention so as not to scare or squish you if you’re walking irresponsibly, even though you might frustrate or startle me. I hope other drivers do the same.

TLDR: Some pedestrians are better off walking; drivers please be patient and attentive to this, and thanks for keeping our roads safe(r) by not driving if you can’t or shouldn’t.
—Pedestrian-compassionate Driver
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Saturday, November 16, 2019

Citadel Hill staff

Posted By on Sat, Nov 16, 2019 at 10:55 AM

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Big shout-out to the Sean Connery lookalike who I think is in charge of security at Citadel Hill. Our little guy was looking at a long stay in the hospital. He has a little boy's fascination with big guns, so on the way to the IWK we stopped to tour the fort when it was all closed up. Let's just say Sean bent the rules a little bit and made a little boy's day a little less scary.
—Mom
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Friday, November 8, 2019

Happy for what you did!

Posted By on Fri, Nov 8, 2019 at 8:40 AM

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I worked the advance polls before the election, and not only was I surprised at the amazing turnout, I was happy to see it as well. What really made my long days better was seeing parents bring their children with them to vote and encouraging them to be part of the process—letting them put the ballot into the ballot box, for one thing. Making kids see the voting process shows them how easy it is to change things. It was gratifying to see a whole new generation of voters getting excited about voting, even it if it way off in their future. I often don't have a lot of hope for the younger generations but this experience gave a little back. Thank you parents and first-time voters as well!
—Thankful Poll Worker
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Thursday, October 17, 2019

Not a finders-keepers type of guy!

Posted By on Thu, Oct 17, 2019 at 4:26 PM

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Not too long ago, I purchased a pair of Ralph Lauren sneakers from Winners in Mic Mac Mall. About half an hour after leaving the mall I noticed the shoes were not with me in my car. I quickly realized my stupidity—I had left them on top of the car and must've driven away with them still on the roof with the receipt inside! I zoomed back to the mall and was looking frantically through the parking lot, in the ditches and went to lost and found in the mall. Nothing.

Made my way to Winners, and lo and behold they were brought back by an older gentleman! You left your business card inside and I wanted to contact you to personally thank you, but when I got home it was nowhere to be found in the bag. What you don't realize is, that was my birthday present I bought for myself with my birthday money, and it was my birthday. Again, THANK YOU!
—Happy Birthday Girl
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Saturday, October 12, 2019

Cell-less in Halifax

Posted By on Sat, Oct 12, 2019 at 11:02 AM

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To the Good Samaritan who turned in my phone to the Tim Hortons on Quinpool Road, a huge thank you! Props to the friendly staff at Tim’s for their help as well, they seemed just as pleased as I was! You all saved me from some Double Double trouble. Thanks again!
—Not-so-smart Smart Phoner
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Thursday, August 29, 2019

Shout-out to all the great people

Posted By on Thu, Aug 29, 2019 at 10:25 AM

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This past Monday I lost my wallet. Thank you to the bank lady who helped me freeze all of my accounts when I realized I was missing my wallet. Thank you to the police officer who took my report of "missing property" very seriously, even going as far to contact Halifax Transit to see if anything turned up. Thank you to the bus driver who still drove me home when I explained I lost my wallet that has my bus tickets in it, and I couldn't pay for a fare because my accounts were frozen and I had no access to money.

But the biggest thank you goes to the woman who found my wallet, opened it, found my sister's business card and contacted her to inform her that she found my wallet. You are a truly good person. I'm so thankful. Cards and wallets can be replaced, I can make more money, but my wallet had a picture of my late dog Jake. I'm just happy I got that back.
—Thankful Lady With A Blush-pink Wallet
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Friday, August 23, 2019

First on scene

Posted By on Fri, Aug 23, 2019 at 9:05 AM

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I just wanted to thank all of the wonderful people who stopped to help me after I flipped over the handlebars of my motorbike driving down the Bedford Highway earlier this week. A huge thank-you to the off-duty firefighter and two nurses who stopped to help, to the guy who called 911, to the guy who used his shirt to shield me from the blistering sun and the woman who lent me her sunglasses. If I am forgetting to thank others who had stopped, I apologize but it is still all a blur. None of you needed to do what you did, but I am very thankful and grateful that there are people like you out there.
—Battered, Bruised, Bit-broken Biker
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Thursday, August 22, 2019

10 out of 10 experience (there were SNACKS)

Posted By on Thu, Aug 22, 2019 at 3:53 PM

I had to get an abortion here in NS a few months ago, and as a young individual who absolutely could not tell my parents, I was understandably terrified. However, what I found was that Nova Scotia has a GREAT abortion set up. It's super-easy to self-refer to the Women's Choice Clinic, and set up the necessary appointments and everything (the wait time is minimal). When they call you, it's a blocked number so no one around you get suspicious. It's all run by women, and everyone is so nice. At no point did anyone try to convince me against getting an abortion, and all the nurses and doctors were so nice.

The actual day-of process was smooth, the waiting rooms have couches, colouring books, snacks and music playing. There are lots of other women there going through the same thing, and honestly it's a very supportive atmosphere. You can opt to have pain killers and an anti-anxiety med to calm you down. Afterwards you are given a popsicle (& more snacks) and you go to a recovery room until you are ready to go. You are also referred to a psychologist if you feel you need it (not mandatory). Not only was the entire process free, but easy as well. The full process for me took less than two hours, from 8-9:30am. I was the first of my group to go, so it may have been a bit longer for others, but very efficient altogether. Literally the only downside was that music was also playing in the surgery room, and now "Brown Eyed Girl" is forever tainted. (But honestly not really because not one part of this experience was traumatic or scary because of the care taken for the women.)

I'm so happy Nova Scotia has such accessible abortions, and such a wonderful set-up to support women. 10 out of 10 best hospital experience ever, please don't be afraid of feel ashamed. <3
—Young, Sometimes Dumb, But Well Taken Care Of
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Friday, August 2, 2019

Keys to kindness

Posted By on Fri, Aug 2, 2019 at 9:59 AM

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Saturday morning at the Joe Howe Superstore I locked my keys and cell in my car. I had my daughter with me and we were on our way to go camping. I was very distressed and asked this guy if I could use his cell to call someone to help me. When I couldn't remember anyone's numbers because, well, they're all in my contacts, he drove us to my apartment to get my spare keys and then even drove us back to the car. I just wanted to say thank you so much. If you ever need anything you know where I live ( if you can remember lol). I hope you had a good time at the wedding you were going to, and that there were not too many cow patties.
—So Thankful
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Tuesday, July 23, 2019

Good Samaritan on Inglis!

Posted By on Tue, Jul 23, 2019 at 4:12 PM

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THANK YOU SO MUCH, PAM! For finding and returning my nerdy Star Wars wallet, still with cash.
—Dumby Who Left His Wallet On The Back Of His Truck
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Tuesday, January 22, 2019

Wonderful hospital staff

Posted By on Tue, Jan 22, 2019 at 12:41 PM

I had a parent taken to the hospital for emergency surgery for this week. I was scared to death, but all of the hospital staff were so kind. Thank you so much for taking care of my family. I'm forever grateful.
—Thankful child
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Tuesday, June 26, 2018

Freedom

Posted By on Tue, Jun 26, 2018 at 10:33 AM

For years—long before I met you, long before I came here—I had the strong vibes of wanting to be free but I had mistaken it for wanting to run. Or maybe I wanted both.

You and I often spoke about how I felt held back by others where I was from and how they would do anything to see me stuck living in the misery that was left when my adoptive parents passed. In all honesty, I had forgotten what it felt like to be told that I can break free and start my entire life over.

But most importantly, that I can do anything I wanted with my life and what I wanted most was to be able to live my life again. And so, you pulled at my heartstrings and unintentionally brought up memories. Yet you never once laid a finger on me. You let me scream out and cry. But you were not going to take the blame for someone else and you were right in not doing so. You remained supportive and encouraging long enough so that you could cut me loose and you disappeared after you helped me get my life back. Now, several months later for the first time in years, I feel alive again and I feel free. Thank you.
—T

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Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Can't Say It Out Loud

Posted on Wed, Jun 8, 2016 at 9:45 AM

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Just had a birthday—quietly, telling no one and being contacted by no one. The price I pay for bad life choices, burned bridges. But you still lift me up, all the time, the only one in my life who congratulates me on accomplishments, shares a drink or conversation, shows up. And I do the same right back! There's no shortage of people around, but only one who sees me for me, and who I hope gets equal joy from time with me. —So Inappropriate
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Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Thank You

Posted on Tue, Sep 29, 2015 at 4:00 AM

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I know we’ve never met, and only spoke once ever so briefly on the phone many years ago, but there are a few things I would like to say.

First of all I know you felt the she and I had some kind of secret relationship going on behind your back, but I would like to take this time to quell those anxieties, she was always 100% true and faithful to you she never broke her vow and never once cheated on you.

She is truly a remarkable woman.

Now I would also like to take the opportunity to say thank you for being the type of “man” you are, one who gave of himself so freely over and over again to so many without any thought of your own relationship and the person you were married to.

But most of all I would like to thank you for being self centered and shallow enough to pack up and move away.

I know it sounds funny… me thanking you for leaving… but I have to say that in this truly selfish and cowardly act of yours, you allowed me the opportunity to reconnect with the most amazing woman, someone so kind, and caring, with a so much to offer and asks only the same in return.

I’m not the most religious person but in this instance I am blessed.

I am just humbled that you would choose to pack up and walk away from such a wonderful woman and allow me the opportunity to start building a life with her and share all of our hopes and dreams together we’re looking at a big bright and wonderfully happy future together, we’re not sure where we will end up but it will be happy and together all thanks to you.

I know… I know… I sound like a broken record but I am just dumbfounded how a “man” such as yourself would be so gallant as to run off with another man’s wife, so that I could be happier than I have ever been with a truly remarkable woman your selfishness and self-centredness has paved the way for us to be really and truly happy.

So I’ll end this by again saying thank you for being the “man “ you are and I hope you understand what you’ve lost because I certainly know what I’ve gained.

—Thankful

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