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Re: “Running out the clock

I really feel for BLOW. I'm really into oral too, and unfortunately, a lot of straight men seem to be so uncomfortable with that - and many of my exes have said so themselves, this is not just my imagination - that they do feel like I'm not relationship material. It weirds them out. If they don't have to fight for it, they equate you with a whore. I've never done it on the first date, hell I don't think I've even done it on the second.
I'm far too cautious for that!
And my current bf, who likely wouldn't be a bf if he hadn't known me for 20+ years first, and had come to terms with this, tends to ignore my other needs, and just lets me suck it up, so to speak. Sad thing is, in the beginning he was also very giving, and now he takes it for granted that he is gonna get off, and I can just use some toys when it's all over. I miss the guy who tried to impress me. He was the first guy I ever had who gave as good as he got; And I really liked the guys who blew me off for blowing them. There's been shitloads of hurt over this in my lifetime.
Maybe Dan, since you're gay, and you get head from gay men ( I assume, sorry if I'm wrong! ) you don't experience this, but I bet that most women who give, and give openly - or just plain crave it like me - experience it all the time.

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Posted by kinkyb_inhali on 09/20/2012 at 10:58 PM

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